Men do not complain, cry, or suffer for love that has gone away. It’s customary. But the external “icy” calm does not mean that we do not worry or feel pain. It is challenging for us to cope with the loss of a partner, as well as women, but emotions do not find a way out and gnaw at us from the inside.
From the outside, it may seem that a man enjoys freedom, having fun with friends, flirting with girls. But in reality, he has no idea how else to take away the pain and face the truth – the relationship is over. How do you behave after you break up? How do you survive a separation from the girl you love? To live on, you have to accept the situation as it is. That’s what we’re going to talk about today.
How do we survive the breakup with the girl we love…
When a woman reports a relationship breakup, it’s a big shock. In the beginning, you’re not ready to accept the fact that it’s over and you don’t agree with the choice of a partner. You try to find out why and fix it quickly, but it doesn’t work.
The pain of loss can cause hysterics, nervous breakdowns and even health deterioration. The very fact that a man most often closes himself to others, only exacerbates the situation.
To recover from a broken relationship, you have to accept reality, no matter how hard it is. Perhaps you can bring your loved one back in the future. But first you both need time to calm down and think about what happened.
Trying to convince your former partner, you only risk making things worse and finally pushing your loved one away. Do not find out the relationship on the emotions, do not get hysterical and do not threaten! This is the right way to the point of “no return”.
The most common mistake – to keep the relationship that has long outlived itself. After the breakup, give yourself and your partner time to understand the feelings and priorities. In the meantime, establish other areas of life. After all, it often happens that problems at work negatively affect the love relationship. And do not involve any third parties in your “showdown”. Do not discuss your former girlfriend with friends, because if you do make up, you will look stupid.
Isolate yourself from your ex-girlfriend completely, no calls or messages. No “casual” meetings, no mutual friends. After a while, you’ll find out if your ex-girlfriend is worth trying to get her back or if it’s time to move on to new shores.